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Adoptee |
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| First Name |
Ashley |
| Middle Name |
Marie |
| Last Name |
Dothage |
| Birth First Name |
Jennifer |
| Birth Middle Name |
Marie |
| Birth Lastname |
Tarbox |
| Birth Date |
Apr 12, 1984 |
| Birth Place |
California |
| Gender |
female |
| Height |
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| Hair Color |
brown |
| Eye Color |
brown |
| Handicap |
none |
| Handicap |
none |
| Race |
Unknown |
| Religion |
Catholic |
| Married |
no |
| Military |
no |
| Other Info |
At birth Jennifer (Ashley) weighed 7lbs 10oz, she was born on her birth fathers birthday, she is a beautiful girl. |
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Birthmother |
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| First Name |
Debra |
| Middle Name |
Marie |
| Last Name |
Boyce |
| Maiden Name |
Tarbox |
| Birth Date |
Dec 10, 1967 |
| Handicap |
none |
| Handicap |
none |
| Race |
White |
| Married at Birth |
no |
| Married at Adoption |
no |
| Age at Adoption |
16 |
| Occupation |
Medical Assistant |
| Old Occupation |
U.S. Navy Corpsman |
| Military |
yes |
| Location |
Camp Pendleton, CA (Oceanside) |
| Branch |
Navy |
| Other Information |
Jennifer/Ashley,
If you find this I just want you to know that I want to know you and find you in only a way a mother could possibly know. Not one day has passed since I last held you in my arms was there a time you weren't in my heart and in my mind, everyday I miss you more and want to find you as soon as possible. You were with me everyday in the hospital,every feeding, and every night. I broke the rules of the adoption agreement from the moment I first laid my big brown eyes on you. You were so beautiful and so perfect that no matter what anyone said you were to spend every minuet and every second with me until one of us had to leave. I memorized every part of you I could. I never really knew what love was until I held you for the first time, and since day one I have never stopped loving you or thinking about you. I almost brought you home with me but the only thing that stopped me was knowing how unfair it would be for you to grow up without a mother and a father, I had to do it and I remember how hard and how sad it was, and I didn't want you to go through that. I hope that you can understand that, it was the hardest decision I have ever had to make, even until this day I can't remember anything harder that I have had to do. When I met Debra and Orville I felt very comfortable with them and we met a few times before you were born, and out of the other two families my heart told me that they would be best for you. I hope that they gave you everything I couldn't, your welfare was the utmost importance to me, and I pray everyday that you are happy and healthy. I never wanted to let you go please believe me when I say that, just ask your mom now, they almost left the hospital without the child they wanted. I cried and morned for you day after day, I wanted to be the one who fed you, changed your diaper,bathed you, took you to the park,and everything else a parent is supposed to do. I knew that I couldn't do it on my own, my support system within my family was hardley there and I wanted you to have the best of everything life had to offer. Now that I have a 2 year old Neice and I am able to watch her grow, I sometimes find myself wondering if the things she is doing is the way you did it when you were a baby, and everytime I hold her I remember how you felt in my arms when I was able to hold you. Those were the most precious memories I hold deep inside my heart, and as god as my witness, I loved you and still love you more then anyone could ever imagine. I hope that you were able to find this message and I am here for you always, so please don't be afraid to find me, I want to find you too. I can't wait til I can put my arms around you again. I Love you, Debra (Mom) |
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Birthfather |
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| First Name |
Dale |
| Middle Name |
Robert |
| Last Name |
Caillier |
| Birth Date |
Apr 12, 1966 |
| Handicap |
none |
| Handicap |
none |
| Race |
White |
| Married at Birth |
no |
| Married at Adoption |
no |
| Age at Adoption |
18 |
| Occupation |
Manager/Gas Station |
| Military |
no |
| Other Information |
now living in Palmdale CA, he is manager of the Cheveron Gas station on the corner of Avenue I and 20th st west. He is married now with 3 children.phone 661-947-2425 |
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Other |
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Relation
to Adoptee |
Aunt |
| First Name |
Christine |
| Middle Name |
Lee |
| Last Name |
Garcia |
| Birth Date |
Sep 27, 1966 |
| Gender |
female |
| Handicap |
none |
| Handicap |
none |
| Race |
White |
| Occupation |
Computer Graphic Artist |
| Old Occupation |
same |
| Spouse Name |
Joseph Garcia |
| Military |
no |
| Other Information |
32 years old
married with one daughter
she is your aunt
Lives in Lancaster
661-273-3150 |
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